Monday, July 20, 2009

Dick Magnet

There's one thing half the population of woman want and the other who want it rid of, and thats being a "dick magnet." Since my early years up till Sophomore year I was always the flat chested geeky girl who wasn't that pretty, and who guys were never attracted to. It hurt, even now I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 17, and my first kiss was just shy of a year ago. I had always wanted to be the beautiful girl who attracted boys like honey to a bee. Careful what you wish for!

In the past few months i seem to have gotten my wish, i've had many guys interested in me and have aptly flirted with most. But after awhile and the list of how many guys you can catch gets long you start wishing it would just stop. For me the attention is nice...but now I'm starting to wonder how to deal with my flirtatious behavior. Should i still keep the date when the guy i wouldn't make my boyfriend tells me he's in love with me? Seems to be my problem now, I recently started talking with a guy who over the past three weeks has decided he is in love with me, wanting to give me roses, and offering to pick me up from San Diego's Comic con convention...are just a few of the things i have to deal with. Its sweet, but when he tells me he wont let me live town i go a bit speechless. What's even worse? I just met an amazing guy who i can see myself dating, yet i need to get rid of the love sick pup and tell him I'm done.

People deal with this all the time I'm sure, so how do girls do it? Be a bitch and break it off quickly without emotion? Guys have never been the smartest at hints, even if you say you just had lustful feelings. Any advice? I'll let you know how it comes out.

Love Kat

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